As most of you are aware, Susan had lapband surgery about a month ago. Before deciding to have the surgery, Susan meticulously researched all the effects the surgery would have on her. We both knew that lapband surgery would be a drastic change for her. What I\u2019m not sure either of us realized is how much of an impact her surgery would have on ME.<\/p>\n

When you first have lapband surgery, your stomach is reduced to about one cup in size (8 oz) — later, the band is constricted down to hold about half a cup (4 oz). If you need a visual aid, those small paper cone cups that sit next to water bottles are about 4 ounces. With a stomach that size, eating loses its fun. It\u2019s no longer enjoyable to linger around a Mexican restaurant for an hour, snacking on chips and cheese (the cup of cheese they bring to your table is about four ounces — eat that and you\u2019re done) waiting for your meal and the eventual sopapillas to arrive. When you can only eat a cup of food, every bite counts. Over the last month we\u2019ve all but stopped eating out. We used to hit restaurants or buffets on the way home on a regular basis; now, it\u2019s a rarity for sure.<\/p>\n

Buffets are pretty much completely off her list now. I can think of five or six Chinese buffets within just a few miles of work that Susan and I used to frequent on a regular basis. No more. Last Saturday I called my dad and made him go eat Chinese food with me for lunch because I was craving it so bad. Stupid MSG. And it\u2019s not just Chinese food. Susan and I used to love going to Hometown Buffet, Golden Corral, and Fire Mountain, not because we necessarily enjoy getting stuffed at every meal but more because you can get a fun variety of salads, fruits, vegetables and meat all at one place. Those days seem to be over as well. We\u2019re not going to pay $8 so Susan can have a cup of soup.<\/p>\n

Eating in front of someone who cannot eat can also have a weird mental effect on you as well. The other night, Susan made one of my favorite dishes, a bowl of Chinese stir-fry and rice. As I\u2019m stuffing my face, I look over to Sue who is eating a tiny smidgen of food. I started eating before her, and continued eating long after she was done. After a few minutes I started thinking about what a pig I must look like to someone who can eat so little. At least twice now I have stopped eating because I felt bad eating in front of Susan, only to resume later once she was out of the room or had gone to bed. This is not a healthy habit to start. Although it\u2019s not intentional or planned, it feels like I am \u201chiding\u201d eating and that can\u2019t be a good sign.<\/p>\n

I think overall the changes Susan has made and the effect they have had on me are a good thing. We are still trying to figure out how all of this will play out. I have no idea how the big holidays (Thanksgiving and Christmas, which revolve around our families getting together and eating non-stop for days) will play out. We\u2019ll cross that bridge when we get to it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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